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3 Tips for Photo Shoots with Kids

Filed Under: family photos, Uncategorized // August 23, 2022

We get professional family photos taken at least once a year. To me, they are a beautiful way to capture our family in the present moments. Life together is a beautiful gift. Sometimes, it can feel like a blur, with how quickly it goes. Photos are my way of pressing pause to get intimate glimpses of us all over time. If you’re interested in tips for photo shoots with kids, this is the post for you.

I hope our kids appreciate these professional family photos. I think they will enjoy looking back on them, and maybe even keep some as their own little keepsakes. As for me, I do a poor job of printing everyday photos I take. However, I make sure to print professional photos to hang up in our home.

I know photo shoots can be stressful with little kids. Keeping kids’ attention (and getting them to smile while at it) for an extended period of time can be challenging. We usually wind up having a lot of fun, though, especially this last photo shoot.

Here are three tips I have for tips for photo shoots with kids:

  1. If your kids still nap, have them nap at home before you leave for the photo shoot. If they do not still nap, give them some quiet time to relax at home. Car naps en route to the photo shoot are not ideal, especially if your baby or toddler will wake cranky.
  1. Bring all the snacks! If your kids are anything like mine, then are constantly hungry and snacking. Avoid hangry tantrums by bringing lots of snacks.
  1. Try not to stress! Photos with kids will not go “perfectly” and perhaps not as 100% planned but rarely do things go exactly to plan with kids. Let’s be real, though, life happens. Stress less and you’ll enjoy the photo shoot more. Let the photographer work their magic and you will likely be pleasantly surprised by the images they are able to capture even if a photo shoot feels chaotic.

* Bonus tip: Mamas, if you can, get your hair and/or makeup done so you have less to worry about when getting ready. Plus, you deserve to be pampered!

Without further ado, here are some sneak peeks from our recent beach sunset photo shoot with photographer Tiana Marie:

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Revisiting a BIG Life Goal – What Will We Decide?

Filed Under: goals, life, life update, Uncategorized // August 18, 2022

Are you, today, where you pictured yourself being five years ago? It is something I have personally been thinking about lately as I am revisiting a big life goal.

Back in 2017, my husband, oldest son (then our only child) and I returned from a family vacation. It was then that I placed a dream goal of mine onto my unofficial “five-year plan.” My husband was open to the idea. (Thankfully, we’ve always been on the same page when it comes to big events.) However, he put it on a “ten-year plan.” Either way, it was being placed our life plan.

With the summer days longer and warmer, I was reminded this summer why that goal made it into our plans.

Well, here we are five years later in 2022, and maybe my husband was right about it being closer to 10 vs. 5 years. Lately, though, I have been revisiting that big life goal… And I think I still want to go through with it, at least in some form. There are a lot of variables that would have to be figured out beforehands. Thankfully, we have some time, which is comforting (but also makes me a bit antsy).

Due to the big change it would bring, I do not want to rush. It is one of the biggest –if not the biggest since we have kids now– decisions we’ve made together.

Now, with three kids, two of whom are in school, this decision feels heavier. Our responsibility has grown immensely since becoming parents to three awesome little dudes.

We now feel an urge to not only build to a great life for ourselves, but also for our kids.

Ultimately, I know whatever decision we make together will be the best one for our family.

So, what will we decide? I do not the answers right now. We are unsure of quite a bit. What I do know is that we are thinking about it, and that time will tell…

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You Can Pivot Your Career — and be (More) Successful

Filed Under: Uncategorized // August 16, 2022

A couple of months ago, I went on a midday hike for a couple of hours. While I answered some emails and messaged, I didn’t feel like I was “on the clock” or pressure to get back to work.

Whenever I share about my work from home journey, moms reach out to vent or ask how I was able to do this.

My answer: it took 3 years of manifestation and hard work, both behind-the-scenes with my blog/social media and believing in my worth and value as an employee and colleague to advocate for the position I currently have, which did not yet exist.

I share this to give you all HOPE because when I was in the thick of it, having anxiety and panic over being away from home 50-60 hours/week, many days being a mom with a career felt overwhelmingly stressful and change felt impossible. The American work model just isn’t ideal for working parents.

But change is possible. You can have more. More success. More flexibility. More time for your kids. More time for your partners. More time for yourself.

So write it down. Work for it. Believe in yourself. Advocate for yourself. And remember: WE know what’s best for ourselves and families, and WE have the power to define what success means to us.

While working from home with kids is stressful in its own ways, I am forever grateful I took the leap and I feel the most successful I ever have.

I hope if you want more, you too can find a way to get it.

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Welcome To MOM’s New Website

Filed Under: blog, moments of musing, Uncategorized // March 23, 2022

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Hi everyone! Welcome to my new website for the Moments of Musing (MOM) influencer business. As you can see, the design is very different than any of my previous sites. I finally made the switch from Blogger to WordPress for reasons including website functionality and improved SEO.

Though this change was years in the making, it was a big decision that felt overwhelming so I kept putting it off. One of my 2022 business goals was to finally see it through, though, and I’m happy I did.

Why the rebrand?

To celebrate 5 years of Moments of Musing (MOM) and the direction in which it’s moving! It’s crazy to think it’s been 5 whole years since I officially rebranded to MOM and went public with my blog.

Who designed my new website for MOM influencer business?

While I purchased the theme, I installed and personalized it on my own, which has been a fun learning experience. (wpbeginner took care of the migration of all files.)

What’s new?

I have a new logo (it’s the period after Moments of Musing and much more visible on my LinkedIn). I have also opened up consultation and website installation services.

Is anything else different?

I am not sure if anyone has noticed but I have been trying to feature my children less in my Instagram content, especially ads. As time has gone on and they are growing up, I feel a stronger “mama bear” instinct to protect them and their privacy. I am also editing my photo truer to color and reality. I deleted all of my the presets I used to apply to my photos and now use more natural editing, mainly for lighting/brightening purposes.

Who took the branding photos?

My husband, Tim, took my photos. When discussing photographer or camera options, Tim offered to learn more about our Nikon and take the photos for me. I am so happy we went this route – the photos mean a bit more now!

What plans do you have for Moments of Musing in 2022?

2021 was my most “successful” year business-wise but I was very stressed juggling my nonprofit work along with my Moments of Musing projects and taking care of my kiddos. Therefore, my main 2022 business goals are to grow and to outsource tasks that I could use some help with. As such, Tim has become more involved behind-the-scenes to help me grow and manage my business.

All in all, I am excited for what this year has in store!

Do you have any professional goals for 2022 that you are working on?

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Baby’s Big Messes

Filed Under: Uncategorized // September 13, 2021

 This shop has been compensated by Inmar Intelligence and its advertiser. All opinions are mine alone. #waterwipestexturedclean #texturedclean    


How has our littlest baby been with us over two months?! Time sure does fly! As a third-time mom, I am trying to slow down and appreciate every moment because I know just how precious this stage is.

This stage is also pretty messy. There is constant spit up — his pediatrician calls him a “happy spitter” — and constant dirty diapers. I am well aware, though, that as he grows so too will the mess! I know because his older brothers have prepped me pretty well for the constant mess that awaits! There will be messy eating, potty training, arts and crafts, and so on.

I’m excited my favorite brand of baby wipes, WaterWipes has new textured wipes to clean babies’ bigger messes. WaterWipes Textured Clean wipes can tackle messes wherever they occur as babies transition from newborn to toddler and beyond. I make sure to keep packs around the house, including the nursery nook stand, the kitchen and the living room.

WaterWipes Textured Clean are the World’s Purest Baby Wipes, containing just two simple ingredients: water and fruit extract. They contain 99.9% water and drop of fruit and berry extract for natural cleansing power. Ideal for use on hands, face and bottoms.

WaterWipes Textured Clean are safe for sensitive skin. My middle kiddo has skin irritations so it’s especially nice to know that WaterWipes Textured Clean has been awarded the Seal of Acceptance by the National Eczema Association.

You can buy WaterWipes Textured Clean at your local Walmart in-store, via pickup or via delivery.

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Menu Planning + 1 Month Plant-Based!

Filed Under: Uncategorized // May 11, 2021

This post has been sponsored by Cinch! but all opinion are my own.



It’s already been about a month since my husband and I have adopted a plant-based diet! I have kept it kind of on the down-low because I am not one to really share what I eat and I do not want to seemingly impose my dietary beliefs on anyone else.


That being said, we’ve really enjoyed this time. I have always joked I could do it because I’ve never been a huge fan of meat. So when Tim mentioned cutting meat and dairy from our diets, I didn’t really think twice. I sort of had been waiting for the day he’d be open to it haha! Having him on board for such a big change is a huge help to stay on track.


Another big help is meal planning! It’s so much more efficient for grocery shopping and when it comes to dinner time. Our dinner meals are usually plant-based for the whole family (though our kids still consume some meat and dairy), so it’s nice to see what’s for dinner each day of the week rather than scrambling to put dishes together at the last minute.



The Cinch! Magnetic Dry Erase Menu Board has been especially useful for menu planning. It has a cute design with bright neon liquid chalk markers that erase effortlessly with a paper towel or napkin. It has dedicated spaces for each day of the week to help lay out our meals, a grocery list area and a to do list portion so we can be prepared and organized together. If my husband is wondering what to pick up from the grocery store or I’m trying to remember what’s for dinner, all we have to do is check the board. Use code 10MOMENTS for 10% off Cinch! products on Amazon (for a limited time). 


I should note that we’re a pretty flexible family, so our menu is never rigid. We order out some days and change up what we want others but having a drawing board to bounce off of rather than a blank slate each dinner time helps a ton. I think every family could find this Cinch! menu board helpful!


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New Road Trip Snacks for My Kids

Filed Under: Uncategorized // April 19, 2021

This post is sponsored by Simple Mills. All opinions are my own.

The days are getting longer, the sun is starting to shine and flowers are starting to bloom! Spring is finally here!

In the meantime, I still like to try to get my kids to experience new activities and foods even though we are home much more.

We recently went on a road trip down South and I packed a few new snacks I was excited for my kids to try out.  I’ve been wanting to try Simple Mills products, and their Almond Flour Crackers and Soft Baked Bars are yummy and full of nut & seed flour. Even the Bars have real fruit pieces! That’s a win-win when trying to feed littles new foods. 


I used to use almond flour often for baking and cooking so I was pretty excited to introduce these fun new grain-free snacks to my children. They’re conveniently packed so they’re great to bring on-the-go or to eat at home. 

The Almond Flour Crackers are tasty snack crackers made with a blend of almond and seed flour. The Soft Baked Bars, naturally sweetened with honey & molasses, are full of nuts, seeds, and fruit pieces for a delicious blend of textures and flavors.

The kid-approved snacks are available at Walmart and right now you can save with cashback offers from iBotta HERE. Who doesn’t like to save money when grocery shopping? I know I do! Plus, if you’re looking for even more convenience, you can add both of these products to your next Walmart Online Pickup and Delivery order HERE.


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Quick & Yummy Easter Bunny Applesauce Waffles

Filed Under: Uncategorized // March 26, 2021

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This post is sponsored by Musselman’s Applesauce but all opinions are my own.

Mornings are generally hectic in our house. It’s a mad dash to the beginning of the work day for me and my husband and school day for S, while simultaneously trying to keep up with my toddler and make breakfast for everyone.

That’s why simple yet delicious breakfasts are my favorite. My new applesauce waffle recipe, using Musselman’s applesauce, was a hit among the boys, husband included. Their 100% American apples are sourced from family farms!

I added some cinnamon apples as Easter Bunny ears, and used the thickened sauce in lieu of traditional maple syrup. 

It’s safe to say I plan to add it permanently into our breakfast rotation!

 

Applesauce waffle ingredients:

  • 1/2 cup Musselman’s Applesauce (healthy substitute for butter or oil)

    • I chose Musselman’s Cinnamon Applesauce for this recipe but you can use any of their varieties

  • 1/3 cup water 

  • 1 cup pre-made waffle batter 

Recipe:

1. Mix the batter, water and applesauce.

2. Pour into waffle maker

3. Cook until waffle maker signals waffles are done (5-7 minutes). 

 

Cinnamon apple topping ingredients:

  • 1 apple sliced

  • 1/4 cup water

  • 1 tablespoon of flour

  • A pinch of cinnamon

Recipe: 

1. Peel and slice apple.

2. Place water and apple into a skillet pan.

3. Add cinnamon and mix.

4. Add flour and mix.

5. Let simmer for 5-10 minutes, or until apples are softened.

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Remembering 9/11

Filed Under: Uncategorized // September 11, 2020

And then, on September 11, the world fractured.” 
– President Obama

Credit: AP Photo/Marty Lederhandler

On September 11, 2001, when the school day took a hectic turn … when my mom picked me up and we walked home as ashes fell from the sky… when I learned my NYPD dad had rushed out of our house that morning to get to Ground Zero … when we went to my aunt’s roof and watched the smoke rising from where the Twin Towers once stood… when I listened as it was declared a terrorist attack… I just hoped and prayed my dad would come home safely to us that night. 

I thank God that he did, and I think of those family members who weren’t as lucky.

This year, as the country and world feels fractured in different ways, I hope we can all remember what happened after the tragedy of 9/11. Heroes, both first responders and regular people, ran in to rescue strangers. We came together. We lifted each other up. We wanted to move forward, united, to be stronger and better. All of our pain was valid, all of our hopes and prayers important. 


May we always remember and never forget to come together to care about each other, and about humanity in those ways again…

Credit: AP Photo/Dan Loh

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Learning How to Responsibly Grow My Business

Filed Under: Uncategorized // June 26, 2020

Tracking PixelThis post is sponsored by Traffic Secrets: The Underground Playbook for Filling Your Websites and Funnels with Your Dream Customers by Russel Brunson. All opinion are my own.

Over the past month, my mind has been spinning. I have been disappointed and concerned with the state of our country. 

Still, however, work must continue because (1) the work my antiviolence nonprofit does is important work needed even more, and (2) using my voice and platform is even more important now, too. 

When I first started (secretly) blogging in 2011, I would have loved to generate an extra income from it but had no idea where to start. I was a bit busy with law school at the time so I solely focused on obtaining my law degree, passing the bar and becoming a lawyer. Over the next few years, I would write every few days or few weeks but writing definitely took a backseat to my legal career. To be frank, I was happy with my job and lifestyle, and though I had much more time to write, I did not really have the desire to do so as I do now.

Fast forward to return to work from maternity leave in October 2016. I was crying hysterically on the ew York City subway, feeling sad and guilty for leaving my baby. Though I eventually got accustomed to my working mom routine, I knew I did not want to work the traditional 9AM-5PM work hours anymore. The feeling grew and eventually, I knew something had to change. I had been writing on my blog more regularly since becoming pregnant because I wanted to document the time and because I was experiencing a lot of emotions. 

In Spring 2017, I decided it was time to stop hiding. 

If I wanted to monetize my blog, I would have to tell people about it. 

I went public with my blog and Instagram on March 1, 2017 and slowly but surely built a following and an income that was steadily growing. Then, 2020 happened and I got worried. But now, I realize there are more important issues going on than the stagnant growth of my blog and Instagram. Instead, I can take this time to utilize my platforms in ways that are constructive and socially responsible, as well as to learn how to make them more successful.  



I started the book,Traffic Secrets: The Underground Playbook for Filling Your Websites and Funnels with Your Dream Customers by Russel Brunson, and completed the 30-day challenge. By doing so, I’ve learned key strategies to increase my site and social media traffic.

I have learned that the biggest issue that most entrepreneurs have isn’t creating an amazing product or service. 

The biggest problem entrepreneurs face is getting discovered by future customers and clients. 

Every year, tens of thousands of businesses start and fail because the owners seemingly do not know how to get noticed by potential consumers.

In Traffic Secrets: The Underground Playbook for Filling Your Websites and Funnels with Your Dream Customers, Brunson explains the classic and important direct marketing techniques that will help you to be at the forefront of new trends and find opportunities that others are missing, as well as how to utilize funnels to reach your dream customers.




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